You might still be pretty under the impression of childbirth. Added to that are the broken nights and perhaps insecurities. You see your wife changing into a mother, who is mainly busy with your child and her own recovery in the first period and therefore has less attention for you. Give each other peace and time, but do talk about it together
Practical
In this week you can put your practical attitude to good use! After giving birth, you should declare your son or daughter. This can be done at the town hall or via DigiD, if you arranged recognition during pregnancy. It is a good idea to make an appointment so that you do not have to wait long. Bring your proof of identity and your marriage booklet, if applicable. Furthermore, you will regularly be sent on errands for products you did not even know existed.
Rest
For the first few days, if the situation allows, try to get some sleep between midday as well. You don't know how the upcoming night will go. So it's nice to be able to refuel for at least an hour during the day.
Feeding
You can also support your wife during breastfeeding, for instance. Again, make sure you have read up a bit. This can make a huge difference. The positive approach you had during childbirth will come in handy again. Breastfeeding may be a bit of a challenge at times, but together you will be stronger and more likely to succeed!
Hormones
If you thought hormones changed your woman during pregnancy, in childbirth it gets even a tad more intense. Logical too, because an awful lot is happening in your lives. Both physically and emotionally. Don't worry, let it wash over you and try to support your wife. Talk to each other, because you too may have questions or remarks about the birth. When the maternity tears are over, things often start to go uphill again.
